For high-conflict divorce
Out-prepare a narcissist in family court.
Family court does not run on what happened. It runs on what you can prove. This workbook gives you the documentation system, the word-for-word scripts, and the court-prep checklists to walk in ready.
Plain and practical, built from lived experience. Not legal advice.
you're not paranoid. you're under-documented.
8×10 fill-in workbook The Workbook
The paperwork itself, not another book about it.
Most books tell you what to do. This one is the tool you do it with. Every page is built to be filled in, dated, and handed to your attorney.
The habit that wins
A dated record beats memory.
The people who do best in high-conflict cases are not the loudest. They are the most organized. Write it down while it is fresh, and let the paper speak for you when it counts.
write it down while it's fresh.
Free companion
The Divorce Documentation Toolkit
Twenty ready-made logs and trackers in one spreadsheet. Make a private copy, fill in only the tabs that fit your situation, and bring a clean record to every attorney meeting.
Twenty tabs in all. Use what you need, skip the rest.
Who it's for
This is for you if
Narcissistic husbands and narcissistic wives run the same playbook, so this works for either. It is not legal advice and does not replace your attorney. It makes you a client who is easy to help.
Survival is strategy too
Take care of yourself while you fight.
You cannot document from empty. The toolkit includes a weekly self-care tracker for sleep, movement, and calm, because steady beats frantic in a long case.
rest is part of the plan.
About the author
Daniel Reeves
Daniel Reeves is a father of two who spent years trying to understand why his marriage felt impossible. A therapist was the one who finally helped him name it: narcissistic abuse.
By then he was already in a divorce that had become a custody battle. He hired a Minor's Counsel so his children would have their own legal voice. He fought to get his kids into therapy. He built the incident logs and communication systems that changed how his case moved forward.
He is not a therapist or an attorney. He is a dad who learned the hard way that documentation protects children. He is still in it. The workbook and the toolkit are what he wished someone had handed him at the start.
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